A MAN’S GUIDE TO
TRANSFORMING
SEX AND INTIMACY
DEEPEN YOUR CONNECTION, RE–IGNITE THE SPARK, AND HAVE INCREDIBLE CONNECTED SEX
16 VIDEO MODULES | 10+ GUIDED AUDIO EXERCISES | 50+ DISCUSSION PROMPTS
BROUGHT TO YOU BY TWO HIGHLY SOUGHT-OUT TEACHERS ON MASCULINITY AND RELATIONSHIPS
JACK BUNCE
@wholesome.guide
Men’s Emotional Healing + Relationships Coach
Trained Breathwork +
Somatic Therapy Facilitator through Breathwave + IAmHeart + Opening To Grace
LION CAREW
@lion.carew
Men’s Work, Somatics + Sexuality Coach
Trauma-Informed Somatic + Breathwork Facilitator through The Somatic Embodiment Academy
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
Your sex life isn’t what you want it to be
She tells you you’re not showing up for her
When you try to initiate sex, she shuts you down or is uninterested
Because of this, you feel confused and lonely
You might struggle with porn, alcohol, or social media (especeially when you feel lonely or like you’re not getting the sex you want)
You feel distant from her and rejected
Because of all this, you don’t feel like you’re in your power.
If this feels true, you’re in the right place.
LEARN THE PROVEN METHODS WE’VE USED TO HELP OVER 1000+ MEN TRANSFORM THEIR RELATIONSHIPS AND SEX LIFE.
HERE’S THE REALITY:
The sex is not the problem.
How you show up in your relationship is.
This isn’t a problem that’s solved by having better sex.
It’s solved by how you live, show up for her, and lead her.
From a place of deep awareness, powerful masculinity, and embodied love.
These are the true foundations of great sex.
DISCOVER THE FRAMEWORKS THAT MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A KING TO HER:
01
The Hidden Dynamics of Sex & Intimacy
02
Understanding & Healing Intimacy Wounds
03
Masculine Embodiment
& Sexual Polarity
04
Creating Sexual & Emotional Safety
For Her
05
Sexual Embodiment
Techniques
HERE’S WHY OUR RELATIONSHIPS (AND SEX LIVES) ARE THRIVING.
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For many years, my relationship with sex was fractured.
I chased intensity, validation, and connection through purely physical encounters, often losing myself in the process. I spent time in the sex industry, which offered powerful initiation but also forced me to confront how easily desire can become disconnected from presence, integrity, and emotional safety.
Eventually, the cost became clear.
I saw how unresolved trauma, avoidance of intimacy, and distorted masculine and feminine dynamics were shaping my relationships and leaving me unfulfilled. Pleasure without grounding. Connection without trust.
Everything changed when I chose to take full ownership of my sexual life.
Through years of somatic and trauma-informed work, and through studying Sexual Kung Fu in a lineage rooted in Mantak Chia’s teachings, I learned how to inhabit my body, regulate sexual energy, and relate to sex with clarity and responsibility. I began helping men navigate porn addiction, compulsive sexual patterns, and the deeper emotional roots beneath them.
The most profound shift came through devotion.
I committed fully to my current partner and stepped out of open and poly dynamics. In that commitment, my sexuality matured, my nervous system settled, and my capacity for intimacy deepened in ways I had never known.
This course is born from that journey.
It is an invitation for men who are ready to reclaim their sexual life with integrity, presence, and embodied leadership.
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For a long time, my dating life sucked. I hooked up with a lot of women, but I was driven by lust, performance, and the need for approval. Rarely did I connect emotionally with someone — and when I did, I often sabotaged it through insecurity, people-pleasing, and reactivity, leaving women feeling unsafe and unable to trust me.
I tried everything: dating coaches, books like The Game, and endless advice from men who were just as wounded as I was. It wasn’t until I began my men’s work journey that I saw how deeply insecure I was—and how much that insecurity was shaping my relationships.
The real shift came when I focused on healing my inner child and embodying the mature masculine. As I did this work, I became more grounded, more connected to my body, and better at conscious relating. Women started being attracted to me for who I really was.
Not long after, I met the love of my life, Kae. She was drawn to my commitment to growth, my ability to listen, and the emotional safety I could hold. Today, our relationship is built on the same principles taught in this course—and they’re the reason we continue to thrive as a couple.
THIS PROGRAM IS NOT ABOUT
BEING MACHO.
IT WILL NOT MAKE YOUR C*CK BIGGER.
INSTEAD, IT WILL HELP YOU BECOME A MORE EMOTIONALLY, SEXUALLY, AND ENERGETICALLY POWERFUL AND AWARE MAN, WHO CREATES SUCH A SAFE, PASSIONATE, AND LOVING RELATIONSHIP THAT IT LEADS TO WAY BETTER AND MORE CONSISTENT SEX.
In This 16-Module Program
You Will Learn
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Understand why couples have more and less sex, where the “spark” comes from, and the misconceptions about “better sex” that end up pushing you further apart without you realizing it.
Chapter 1: The Illusion of ‘Better Sex’
Chapter 2: The Reality of Your Relationship
Chapter 3: Your Nervous Systems and Eros
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This section helps you understand common relational wounds many men experience that impact your relationship and sex life, including childhood attachment theory, trauma, and patterns of addiction and self-sabotage – plus how to heal them.
Chapter 4: The Addictions that Steal Your Power + The mother wound
Chapter 5: The Father Wound, Pressure, and Comparison
Chapter 6: Meeting your Inner Child
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This section helps you understand what traditional norms around masculinity have wrong, and how to cultivate and embody a form of masculinity that is deeply self-aware, conscious, and powerful – in order to create a sexual spark and polarity that bring her close to you.
Chapter 7: What is Masculinity? What is Alpha?
Chapter 8: Understanding and Cultivating Inner Presence, Clarity, and Vastness
Chapter 9: Polarity and the Masculine Pole
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This section takes masculine / feminine dynamics and polarity to a deep level, helping you understand how to use your embodied masculine presence to hold space, create emotional safety, and strengthen your connection by repairing intimacy wounds that get in the way of connection and sex.
Chapter 10: Emotional Safety and the Feminine
Chapter 11: Applied Masculine Leadership and Polarity
Chapter 12: The Art of Holding Space (Emotionally and Sexually)
Chapter 13: Relational Rupture & Repair
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We saved this section for last because it requires and builds on everything else – it’s about how to bring your deepened capacity, awareness, and relational wisdom to the bedroom – in order to create incredible, connected sexual experiences.
Chapter 14: The Power of Non-Ejaculatory Sex
Chapter 15: Getting To Know A Woman’s Body
Chapter 16: Sexual Attunement - Making Sex A Conversation
Each section features 3-4 chapters. Each chapter includes a ~10-15 minute video, multiple guided audio and video practices, questions to reflect on and discuss with your partner, and further resources to help you deepen and embody your knowledge.
This stuff works.
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